My Yoruba people have a saying that "you focus on your reason for being in the market, you don't look at the market noise" Simply put, recognise your priorities and ignore distractions. How does this apply to us as Muslims? We are a nation with a specific purpose on earth - to worship Allah (ta'ala). … Continue reading Don’t Focus on the Noise
Quite too often, Muslim men and women love to play this game of putting the responsibility of acting right on the other gender. Especially when it comes to issues related to hayaa and marriage. Men say that our generation of women need to be more like Khadijah (ra), the Prophet (ﷺ)'s beloved wife. As history … Continue reading Be Like Khadijah, Be Like Muhammad
My mum just had one of her prayers answered after almost 10 years of asking Allah (swt). In fact, I think she gave up actively asking several years ago, and just chucked it to qadar. When her prayer got answered, it was unexpected and it came at the most perfect of all times. A time … Continue reading How Long are You Willing to Wait?
The beauty of social media for me is how much I’ve learned and unlearned from my interactions with people. And how these interactions have helped me form a better perception about a lot of things. But then, I look around and I see how social media is destroying our faith, especially as Muslims. It is … Continue reading Social Media and Our Faith
One of my favorite people got married today. It was a beautiful day. On our way to the venue, we passed by my second hometown. The place where my paternal grandfather is currently a king. I was nostalgic and homesick. I haven't seen any of my three surviving grandparents in five years. This realization hit … Continue reading Ties of Kinship